Dear Robin,
The other night I watched a favorite movie of mine -
“The Shawshank Redemption” - written by Stephen
King. It's the story of Andy DuFrane, a young man
sentenced to life in prison for murder. Andy plans
and executes his escape from jail by tunneling
through his cell wall using a teaspoon and
small rock hammer. He patiently chips away at the
decaying cell, filling his pockets with debris and
scattering them in the prison yard. He masks the
ever widening hole with posters of movie
actresses - from Rita Hayworth to Raquel Welch –
until the eventful night he breaks free from
Shawshank Prison and finally finds his own peace on
a beach in Mexico.
I thought that getting out from under a lot of clutter
is kind of like Andy digging through that wall. Like any
worthy goal, it takes focus and determination to
break free and find your peace.
Andy couldn’t let himself think about how far or how
long he had to go to. He couldn't focus on the
impossibility of breaking through a thick wall with a
spoon. He had to keep his mind on his goal -
freedom - and keep digging.
I've had my share of clients quit on me - usually right
in the middle of the project. They get discouraged
or bored or overwhelmed with the size of the mess.
They look at how far they still have to go and give
up. They lose their focus and sight of their goal.
The progress they have made is lost and the cycle
begins all over again.
I’m not trying to convince you that getting organized
will change your life for the better (even though I
firmly believe it will!). Even if I did it wouldn’t be any
more effective than trying to convince you to
exercise more or spend less.
But nothing is more
exciting to me than helping people who who feel
imprisoned by the stuff of life escape the
chaos and embrace their own personal vision of “life
in order”. Not everybody wants to live in a “perfect
mess”. And if that’s you – don’t ever think your
mess is so big you can’t break free of it. Make a
decision to plan your prison break and get help if you
don’t know where to begin. I've got plenty of
spoons - and a year from now you’ll
be glad you started today.
To your best life now,
Robin